I did not know about it until 2021.
After I saw her husband on Interstate 90 and one of her twin boys in Niles Illinois, my long-held belief about my kinship of her took a sharp turn.
Although I have never met her family and her since my high school days, I have seen pictures of them online.
The fact that my father and his wife were seen on March 29, 2021 at Bunker Hills Park close to Niles, Illinois, with two suspicious-looking individuals I recognize only served to deepen my doubts.
She was born before my two sisters and I came to the US in November 1975, right around Thanksgiving.
She may have been one or two years old at the time, a toddler. Despite the fact that I have not spoken to or seen her since my high school days in Lake Zurich, I have never questioned that she shares my father's lineage with us all.
March 29, 2021, changed everything. Once I recognized what my own father and his wife were trying to do at Bunker Hills Park with two very dubious individuals (one Caucasian man in 40 and one Korean woman in 50), I realized I had been duped all my life by these two individuals, my own father and his wife.
Even though I spent the majority of my childhood with him, even after my mother passed away in 1966, we never really developed a father-son bond. And that had to do with this woman, his current wife, and her family. I have known her since 1966 in Seoul, Korea.
My two sisters shared even less or no time at all with him because they were sent to live with my paternal grandparents in countryside after my mother passed away in 1966.
I received those preferential treatments only due to the fact that I was our ancestral family's designated male successor by birth. I had to stay in Seoul in order to receive the best education the nation can offer.
The importance of my education was the paramount concern of my grandparents even after my mother passed away. As they have placed so much family fortune and its future on my father, they did the same on me.
I only have two younger biological sisters who came to the US same time in 1975.
The third sister, whom I met and shared a home in the United States with for approximately three years (1975-1978), may not even be a half-sister biologically.
She shared no blood relationship with me or with us, my two sisters. I have nothing against adopted children. They have every right as biological children. But a problem occurs when one of their parents or stepparents unrightfully or unlawfully attacks their stepchildren to the point of complete destruction by employing their power, wealth, and connections.
From the very beginning, as early as 1980, she probably knew that I was not the half-brother in their eyes for those of her and her family.
The only difference is that, while she and her family may have known for a long time—almost a half century—that I am not her half-brother, I did not know until only a few short years ago. I always had that brotherly kinship of hers in my heart until March 2021.
She and her mother were the whole reason why our family was destroyed, even from Korea, believing she was my father's biological daughter.
She is not my biological half-sister, so our whole family—my grandparents, my two sisters, and me—has been scammed and destroyed by this one individual, her mother. I am very sure there are many people who got duped by this individual, but no one lost more than my mother, me, and my two sisters because of her.
I vanished almost all my adult life from their lives to protect their peace and prosperity. All that for nothing. Our family had suffered so much because of her, her lies, and her willingness to destroy anyone on her path to get her own selfish desires. My mother's death may have had to do a lot with her.
Really, the only true victims are my mother, my grandmother, and my grandfather. My grandparents died believing she was my half-sister.
No one knew about this; at least I did not know about it until 2021. There is no physical proof, but I know that she duped so many people, including me. I am quite confident that I know who her daughter's biological father is.
At least, I know now she is not related to me in anyway biologically, but my grandparents believed that she was and they did the same thing I did for the last half-century.
I am so angry with her family, her mother, their extended families of relatives, business associates and my father for trying to destroy me so insidiously for many years.
They put me through so many emotional, reputational, and financial setbacks in the process of destroying me for many years.
This "inheritance will" online publicly dump all their guilt on us. In it, he is saying that we are the ones at fault for not keeping contact with his family. He is probably oblivious to how he and his current wife treated us all these years. They are the ones who want to cut us away and turn us away forcibly in relationship-wise.
I want to ask my father, Did you ever meet, speak, and have done anything as a grandfather to my two sisters' children?
It was her mother's long-planned strategy to protect and hide the truth that their only precious one, the half sister, who is not really my half sister, was not in fact in any way biologically related to me.
These efforts, insidious hidden attacks on me, were aided by her mother's seven brothers and sisters' families, an unknown number of her cousins' families, and her daughter's biological father's relatives in Korea and the US on top of my personal and corporate enemies.
This is why I have kept saying that my attackers were made of more than six different groups. And all these different groups are somehow related or know each other amongst them.
I am so pleased that I have survived this far, foiling their tenacious insidious attacks for the past seven years, and am able to write about them in my blogs.
