One day in 2021, it hit me like a lightning rod—the possibility that my supposed half-sister is not my biological half-sister. After I saw her husband on Interstate 90 (I-90 Chicago), my long-held belief about my kinship with her took a sharp turn.
Although I have never met her family and her since my high school days, I have seen pictures of them online.
The fact that my father and his wife were seen on March 29, 2021 at Bunker Hills Park close to Niles, Illinois, with two suspicious-looking individuals I recognize only served to deepen my doubts.
She was born before my two sisters and I came to the US in November 1975, right around Thanksgiving Day.
She may have been two or three years old at the time. Despite the fact that I have not spoken to or seen her since my high school days in Lake Zurich, I have never questioned that she shares my father's lineage with us all.
March 29, 2021, changed everything. Once I recognized what my own father and his wife were trying to do at Bunker Hills Park with two very dubious individuals (one Caucasian man in 40 and one Korean woman in 50), I realized I had been duped all my life by these two individuals, my own father and his wife.
Even though I spent the majority of my childhood with him, even after my mother passed away in 1966, we never really developed a father-son bond. And that had to do with this woman, his current wife, and her extended families (brothers, sisters and their cousins). I have known them well prior to 1966 in Seoul, Korea.
My two younger sisters shared even less or no time at all with him because they were sent to live with my paternal grandparents in countryside after my mother passed away in 1966.
I received those preferential treatments only due to the fact that I was our ancestral family's designated male successor by birth. I had to stay in Seoul in order to receive the best education the nation can offer.
The importance of my education was the paramount concern of my grandparents even after my mother passed away. As they have placed so much family fortune and its future on my father, they did the same on me.
I have two younger sisters who came to the US same time in 1975.
The third sister, whom I met and shared a home in the United States with for approximately three years (1975-1978), may not even be a half-sister biologically.
She shares no blood relationship with me.
I have nothing against adopted children. Adopted children have every right as biological children. But a problem occurs when one or both of their parents or stepparents unrightfully or unlawfully attacks their stepchildren to the point of complete destruction by psychologically abusing and employing their power, wealth, and connections.
From the very beginning, even as early as the 1980s, she probably knew that I was not the half-brother in eyes for those of her and her family.
The only difference is that, while she and her family may have known for a long time—almost a half century—that I am not her half-brother, I did not know until only a few short years ago. I always had that brotherly kinship of hers in my heart.
Her mother was the whole reason why our family was destroyed, even from Korea, and then believing her daughter was my father's biological daughter.
She is not my biological half-sister, so my grandparents and I have been scammed and destroyed by this one individual, her mother. I am very sure there are many people who got duped by this individual, but no one lost more than my mother, me, and my sisters because of her.
I vanished myself almost all my adult life from their lives to protect their peace and prosperity.
All that for nothing. I was tricked all my life by her mother. Our family had suffered so much because of her, her lies, and her willingness to destroy anyone on her path to get her own selfish desires.
My mother's death may have had to do a lot with her.
Really, the only true victims are my mother, me, my sisters, my grandmother, and my grandfather. My grandparents died believing she was my father's biological daughter.
No one knew about this; at least I did not know about it. I know that she duped so many people, including me.
I am quite confident that I know who her daughter's biological father is. I have known him for many years.
And I believe that there are a few attackers, sponsors and planners of these attacks on me in Korea and in the US who are related to or hired by blood relatives of this person.
Among many attackers, one of three my Kyungbok High School alumni (54th, 52nd, and 53rd (my classmates) graduating classes) is a close relative of this person.
These are extremely well connected individuals, politically (governments) and financially (chaebeols or multi-national corporations), in Korea and in the US.
These are the same people who were carefully cultivated by her mother for the past half century as her surrogate children and business associates, and for many years in the past to destroy me and therefore our line of family.
At least, I know now her daughter is not related to me in any way biologically, but my grandparents believed that she was, and they did the same thing I did for the last half century, leaving them alone. If I or my grandparents knew that she was not my biological half-sister, we would not have left them alone.
See how these attacks on me intensified once my grandfather passed away. Basically, they brought me to the US as a hostage, someone whom they, my father's current wife and her extended families, wanted to watch me closely at nearby. I was someone whom they needed to get rid of, destroy me literally or figuratively, eventually.
I am so angry with her family, her mother, their extended families of relatives of brothers, sisters, and their cousins, business associates, and my father for trying to destroy me so insidiously for many years so that they and their relatives can live in status quo, fake legitimacy, in deception, for perpetuity at the horrible expenses, complete destruction of our family, of me, my mother, and my grandparents.
They put me through so many emotional, reputational, and financial setbacks in the process of destroying me for many years.
This "inheritance will" online publicly dump all their guilt on us. In it, he is saying that we are the ones at fault for not keeping contact with his family. He is probably oblivious to how he and his current wife treated us all these years. They are the ones who want to cut us away and turn us away forcibly in relationship-wise.
All I can say now is, Don't blame us for your faults.
It was her mother's long-planned strategy to protect and hide the truth that their only precious one, the half sister, who is not really my half sister, was not in fact in any way biologically related to me.
These efforts, insidious hidden attacks on me, were aided by her mother's seven brothers and sisters' families, an unknown number of her cousins' families, and her daughter's biological father's relatives in Korea and the US on top of my personal and corporate enemies.
This is why I have kept saying throughout my blogs that these attackers on me, hundreds of them, were made of more than six different groups. And all these different groups are somehow related or know each other amongst them.
I am pleased that I have survived this far, foiling their tenacious insidious attacks on me for many years, and am able to write about them in my blogs.
I believe that this is all part of karma. Karma has a mysterious way of bringing everything on par.
Finally, I am at peace with myself, knowing I have done what I owe to my mother at last. I always had and still do have that guilty feeling that I had abandoned her, not being close to her, when she needed me most in 1966.
